Today I stumbled upon a cool site: Five Rules for Life. Some of the entries are trite, some are banal, but some are truly insighful. In particular, I liked Dr. Brett Steenbarger’s rules. In addition to the link, I am going to quote them here because they are just so darn good:
- In life, do good and do well. Real success comes from pursuing your talents and enriching the world with their expression.
- They lead best who follow their calling. Those who follow a genuine calling set an inspiring example with their actions.
- Not all who rave are divinely inspired. Passion without wisdom is mere noise.
- True love never dies; it has to be killed. Love is making another’s happiness your own.
- Be your ideals; in some measure, you’re already the person you wish to become. Conscious living is striving to be who you are when you’re at your best.
I think it is interesting that the 2nd most concise moral code ever had 10 commandments – 6 dealing with interactions with people and 4 dealing with God. (The most concise moral code was Jesus’ 2 commands: “Love God and Love One Another”.) I briefly considered whether or not the 6 commandments for living with people would be a good “Five Rules”. Before I write my thoughts, I’ll remind you, gentle reader, what those commands were:
- Honor your parents
- Honor your marriage
- Don’t murder
- Don’t steal
- Don’t tell lies about people
- Don’t covet, (or “be happy for other people’s successes”)
That’s not a bad set of rules. Of course, people in all times and in all places are completely incapable of always following those rules, which is why coming up with a different set of guidelines is both desirable and despicable. (Lest you think you are the exception to my assertion that people can’t follow those rules, you should perhaps be aware that Jesus made it clear that wanting to murder, cheat, steal, lie etc is just as bad as actually doing the act. A word to the wise…)
So I am thinking through my own Five Rules. At this point, there are two things I know for certain about life:
Jesus Loves Me
Shit Happens
Not exactly a whole-orbed philosophy of life, but at least it’s a start. What are your Five Rules?